We hear constantly that in a relationship we have to give more than we take, or get.
That’s a nice concept isn’t it? But don’t you find that you’re burnt out and that you can’t give any more?!
You RESENT that you have to give, give, give - only to get nothing in return (it seems…).
What about you?
What about your needs?
What about your partner giving to you?
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This is where the disconnect is between what we hear we should do in relationships and why it’s not working.
It makes you want to give up, it makes you wonder if you’re with the right person. It makes you wonder if you made a mistake years ago. It makes you wonder if this will last, if you can last, in this way… The answer is probably “NO”.
You cannot last much longer with this resentment. You cannot last any longer giving more and not receiving much… but there’s a cure.
It’s not what you think and it’s not what we have thought for our whole lives: That the other must give us what we need because “that’s what relationships are for”! It’s true to an extend…but, FIRST we need to do a few things.