The divorce rate is 49% and it’s no wonder that after a divorce or a breakup we feel unsure of dating again.
I mean, what’s the point right?
"There are no good men out there”, “all men are jerks”, “what’s wrong with me?” are some of the common thoughts that go through our heads when we are at a loss about our relationship woes. We have been dating the same way for decades: meet a nice guy, “see where it goes”, “give him a chance” and be angry when he’s not everything you wanted.
You decided to stick around to see if you might be able to live with it. Then we blame the guy for not showing up the way we wanted them to and complain there are no available men and certainly zero men that would ever live up to our standards … does this sound familiar?