Barbara Santen

I help people align with their intuition to create harmony and congruence on a mental, spiritual, and emotional level so they may thrive beyond their wildrest dreams in all areas of their lives.

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Your relationship has changed since you had a child.

It’s scary to think that your relationship will never be the same again, but what if I told you that you can get the connection back, plus some?

I am passionate about helping you with easy to implement strategies and tools to immediately start noticing a deeper connection with your partner, even if it’s been years since you felt that way.

I will help you get that level of intimacy that you’ve been desiring for a long time and you will, for the first time in a long time, realize that what you crave in your love relationship is actually possible! You really can have it all.

Hello, I’m Barbara.

As a midwife, I have seen over 500 couples transition from being a couple to being a family. The transition can just as easily be smooth as it is difficult. Many couples just get by after the turmoil of transitioning to parenthood.

I can help you regain your connection, your intimacy and flourish in your relationship beyond your wildest dreams. You can have it all!

Most new parents realize too late that the relationship needs support. That’s ok, there’s always hope. You can always get that connection you long for and regain the intimacy you once had.

Invest in yourself by working with me and you will transform your relationship into the blissful connection you have always craved! Yes, you can have it all

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I highly recommend Barbara as a relationship coach at any point along the journey!

“I met Barbara at a time when things were going well in my life. My relationship with my husband was better than it had been in years, though still a few places to grow. What drew me to Barbara’s work was the idea of getting female support to look in to some of those areas with my husband from a Sisters’ perspective. During my first session with Barbara she said the line that hooked me “this relationship coaching is less about you and your husband and more about you”. Yes!

This was empowering for me and what I needed to hear. Someone to help me see myself more clearly and offer me a solid structure from which to see relationship. I’m grateful for Barbara’s ability to clarify confusion, always be in a compassionate place with me and my husband (whom she’s never met) and offer her experience and insights in a way that is profoundly helpful. There is a strong balance in my relationship now, we’ve broken new ground and at once it feels peaceful and exciting. I highly recommend Barbara as a relationship coach at any point along the journey.”

Heather Azima, Energy Healer & Spiritual Guide
www.healing-one.com

Barbara used her knowledge, compassion and guiding questions to help me help myself.

“When I first met Barbara, I had been given a new lease on relationships and dating after the ending of a marriage. I knew that I had a lot to work on but isn’t really know where to start; I felt overwhelmed and even though I really wanted to be in a committed relationship, I wanted to bring a healthy, healing person into a relationship with someone doing the same. Barbara used her knowledge, compassion and guiding questions to help me help myself.

It was a true blessing to feel so accepted, nurtured and supported during out sessions. She helped me to confront some of my limiting beliefs on relationships, identify healthy boundaries and develop a trusting and loving relationship with myself first. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is serious about moving forward in their self-development and self-love journey!”

Jillian Guinta

Barbara is trustworthy, non-judgemental and compassionate in her coaching.

“Barbara is trustworthy, non-judgemental and compassionate in her coaching. She knows how to focus on what’s working well, and builds on that, rather than focusing on what is not working. She coached me through a challenging time in my relationship and her calm, helpful, open-hearted coaching skills helped and supported me through a journey that only I could go through.

She didn’t give me advice, she asked questions that led me to having an open mind to different possibilities. Her questions and guidance led me to make my own conclusions for what’s best for me rather than her telling me what I should do. I have recently used her coaching services to gain insight and clarity on a career move. Barbara approached this in the same way and she was able to help me gain clarity for myself and see what I already knew in my heart.”

A.H.

I knew that baby and I were going to be in good hands.

“When you first meet Barbara, you’ll be blown away by how innately kind and warm she is, followed by her sense of humour and openness. I knew that baby and I were going to be in good hands. Our monthly, then weekly visits with Barbara were wonderful – she answered all of my questions, helped ease my fear and concerns (first time mom syndrome), and was as excited for our baby as I was.”

Chi N. and Brian C.

She very naturally and compassionately moved me to productive conclusion that supported a goal I was working on.

“I took a course in Positive Psychology over a 6 month period with Barbara. In the course there was an opportunity to be coached by Barbara a couple of times. She very naturally and compassionately moved me to productive conclusion that supported a goal I was working on.”

John Scott

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